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Name: Adorable Alfie
Country: Singapore
Birthday: 1/2/1983
Gender: Male
Interests: Loves soccer, Arts, Sports and wow...so many to mention here....everything in this world is my hobby lah. I also have this secret interest which no one knows. Eh, I think I myself also don't know. Hahaha...Anyone who loves to talk crap...I think you are the person I've been looking for...all my life!
Expertise: Ok, I'm an expert in making people love me. Haha.... I'm expert in judging ppl if they are talented or simply awfully untalented. And last but not least, I'm an expert in writing blogs..tats the reason why u ppl are reading this now..WoHoo!
Stay Yipee aLways!
Occupation: Military
Industry: Government
Message: message meEmail: email me
Website: visit my website
AIM:  Aim? To be like William Hung? Keke
MSN: alfienufc@hotmail.com
Yahoo:  eifla_icy@yahoo.com
Member Since:
10/15/2003
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| Randomioli 25 e aLFiE's..heeAlrite kids. Usually I'm so lazy to type these kinda things. BUt since 'someone' said that I'm HIGH PROFILE (although I beg to differ)...I shall write a few tiny bitsy thingy abt me..hee
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[Here are the "Rules" (apparently): Once you've been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with 25 random things, facts, habits, or goals about you. At the end, choose 25 people to be tagged. You have to tag the person who tagged you. If I tagged you, it's because I want to know more about you and what you are up to. ---> YES PPL, fill this in and tag ME back, I wanna read yrs too! :)
(To do this, go to “notes” under tabs on your profile page, paste these instructions in the body of the note, type your 25 random things, tag 25 people (in the right hand corner of the app) then click publish..]
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Brace yourself PEOPLE!
1) I wish I could wear colour contact lenses..so sad..cant wear coz my left eye is aestic.
*hope i spell tat correctly*
2) It's hard for me to cry when watching sad movies. But I was in tears at the end of Spiderman 3 movie and Star Wars when all the Jedi die...sob sob..
3) I love my job and I love schooling. But i Hate studying..well ..who doesnt..Haha
4) My new frens found it hard to believe that I was a stage actor/scripwriter/director back then in school. I had bags of talents back then.. now not so..heehee..
5) I love nasyid songs and I think I want to set up a new nasyid group. Care to join me ..anyone?
*mcm betul aje si alfie ni..*
6) Oh, I was also in athletics and was one of long distance runner..but i didnt win any competition. seems tat no one believe when i told them that.. I did lack of one thing though ..stamina. hee
7) I like kids..but kids tend to like me more..haha..they just cant stop smiling/laughing when they see my face....really really! Just ask ewan..rite ewan? He laughed so hard until he cry..i tell uu!
8) I used to have phobia with cats..but now ok already. Btw, I cant stand lizards! GIve me heart attack every time i see them! *hush..dont tell anyone*
9) I am actually starting to like pink now...thanks to 'you-know-who'....haha
10) I was so lazy to dress up back then. Right Faizal? Absolutely nerdy dorky guy..haha. But now quite presentable i guess..haaha. Thanks to 'you-know-who' again...
11) I have actually nvr been to anywhere outside Malaysia. Not even Sarawak or Sabah. So please, anyone kind enuff to bring me out of this 'zone'? hee...
12) Been having trouble with my bike lately. Just last nite, got stuck in the middle of ECP. Good thing dad was around to help me buy oil..gosh..or I will still be 'eatinh wind' in the middle of ECP ...
13) I just dislike people when they act clever. I mean..not only you who know abt that particular thing. Most ppl also gone tru tat..They are saying like they are the only ones who have been there..done tat..
14) I rather act dumb than act clever. At least by acting dumb, you can make the other person look clever. And anything dumb sumtimes can mean being humble...
15) I just love being around ppl who have super great sense of humour. If u are the emo, or 'rock solid' feelingless person, please stay away from me..haaha
16) I think by now my frens wld know that I just cant stop making them laugh. Being the funniest person in the WORLD is my resolution for 2009...wohoo!
17) Very few ppl know that I am very serious when at work. I think Ridhuan and Faizal can testify to that..huh..hee. Btw..I hate being serious..lets smile everyone! wohoo!
18) I love shopping...period.
19) I have not play a soccer match since 2006. Arrghh...thanks to my tilted knees!
20) I am actually a very quiet guy. Would only smile if u see me for the first time..hee.. Once a shy person, always a shy person..hee
21) I have never smoke a cigarette/seesha/exhaust pipe/ or whatever u can smoke lahs..NEver!..and I'm glad I never tried. WoHoo..anyway I have asthma..hee
22) Ok maybe you guys dont know this, I was actually a big boyband fan..back in the 90s. Grew up dreaming of becoming the next member of the Backstreet Boys..hahaah. Still dreaming though...
23) I seriously dont like to wear ring on my finger.Mum asked me, dad asked me...I just say no. I just dont like anything to be in between my fat fingers..eeks!
24) Oo its 24. Which reminds me..I ORD when I was 24 yrs old. 2 yrs before before that was the most agonising days of my life. Hate NS. Hate the pay..but the buddies I've made..Priceless.
25) Oo its 25. Let me see..I bet you people are like halfway asleep while reading this or you have exit and not read all the 25 things in here..OR you had the best laugh of the day.
Let me just say.."Your welcome" :)
Its ok,
Its alrite,
Be Happy,
and everything will be alrite..hee
Don be sad,
Later you become bad.
And its not only that..
You will also become fat...heee
Yours Hilariously,
aLFiE *rawwrr* (means the sound that tigers make)
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| Nice Guys Never Finish Last.."This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what assholes guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and sit patiently outside the changing room at department stores. This is in honor of the guys that obligingly reiterate how cute/beautiful/smart/funny/sexy their female friends are at the appropriate moment, because they know most girls need that litany of support. This is in honor of the guys with open minds, with laid-back attitudes, with honest concern. This is in honor of the guys who respect a girl’s every facet, from her privacy to her theology to her clothing style. This is for the guys who know a girl is fishing for compliments but give them out anyway, for the guys who always play by the rules in a game where the rules favor cheaters, for the guys who are accredited as boyfriend material but somehow don’t end up being boyfriends, for all the nice guys who are overlooked, underestimated, and unappreciated, for all the nice guys who are manipulated, misled, and unjustly abandoned, this is for you. This is for that time she left 40 urgent messages on your cell phone, and when you called her back, she spent three hours painstakingly dissecting two sentences her boyfriend said to her over dinner. And even though you thought her boyfriend was a chump and a jerk, you assured her that it was all ok and she shouldn’t worry about it. This is for that time she interrupted the best killing spree you’d ever orchestrated in GTA3 to rant about a rumor that romantically linked her and the guy she thinks is the most repulsive person in the world. And even though you thought it was immature and you had nothing against the guy, you paused the game for two hours and helped her concoct a counter-rumor to spread around the floor. This is also for that time she didn’t have a date, so after numerous vows that there was nothing “serious” between the two of you, she dragged you to a party where you knew nobody, the beer was awful, and she flirted shamelessly with you, justifying each fit of reckless teasing by announcing to everyone: “oh, but we’re just friends!” And even though you were invited purely as a symbolic warm body for her ego, you went anyways. Because you’re nice like that. The nice guys don’t often get credit where credit is due. And perhaps more disturbing, the nice guys don’t seem to get laid as often as they should. And I wish I could logically explain this trend, but I can’t. From what I have observed on campus and what I have learned from talking to friends at other schools and in the workplace, the only conclusion I can form is that many girls are just illogical, manipulative bitches. Many of them claim they just want to date a nice guy, but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational, confusing things such as “oh, he’s too nice to date” or “he would be a good boyfriend but he’s not for me” or “he already puts up with so much from me, I couldn’t possibly ask him out!” or the most frustrating of all: “no, it would ruin our friendship.” Yet, they continue to lament the lack of datable men in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date male friends to sympathize and apologize for the men that are jerks. Sorry, guys, girls like that are beyond my ability to fathom. I can’t figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say (I want a nice guy!) and what they do (I’m going to sleep with this complete ass now!). But one thing I can do, is say that the nice-guy-finishes-last phenomenon doesn’t last forever. There are definitely many girls who grow out of that train of thought and realize they should be dating the nice guys, not taking them for granted. The tricky part is finding those girls, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single. So, until those girls are found, I propose a toast to all the nice guys. You know who you are, and I know you’re sick of hearing yourself described as ubiquitously nice. But the truth of the matter is, the world needs your patience in the department store, your holding open of doors, your party escorting services, your propensity to be a sucker for a pretty smile. For all the crazy, inane, absurd things you tolerate, for all the situations where you are the faceless, nameless hero, my accolades, my acknowledgement, and my gratitude go out to you. You do have credibility in this society, and your well deserved vindication is coming." aLFiE
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| An email that's worth reading..Hi...aLL! Well, I usually don't attach emails at my blog.. But this one really is good... Especially to girls..and to guys too... Learn something from it...please. Thank You. 'I'm so tired'
'Tired of what?'
'Of all these people judging me.'
'Who judged you?'
'Like that woman, every time I sit with her, she tells me to wear hijab.'
'Oh, hijab and music! The mother of all topics!'
'Yeah! I listen to music without hijab. haha!'
'Maybe she was just giving you advice.'
'I don't need her advice. I know my religion. Can't she mind her own business?'
'Maybe you misunderstood. She was just being nice.'
'Keeping out of my business, that would be nice...'
'But it's her duty to encourage you do to good.'
'Trust me. That was no encouragement. And what do you mean 'good'?'
'Well, wearing hijab, that would be a good thing to do.'
'Says who?'
'It's in the Qur'an, isn't it?'
'Yes. She did quote me something.'
'She said Surah an-Nur, and other places of the Qur'an.'
'Yes, but it's not a big sin anyway. Helping people and praying is more important.'
'True. But big things start with small things.'
'That's a good point, but what you wear is not important. What's important is to have a good healthy heart.'
'What you wear is not important?'
'That's what I said.'
'Then why do you spend an hour every morning fixing up?'
'What do you mean?'
'You spend money on cosmetics, not to mention all the time you spend on fixing your hair and low- carb dieting.'
'So?'
'So, your appearance IS important.'
'No. I said wearing hijab is not an important thing in religion.'
'If it's not an important thing in religion, why is it mentioned in the Holy Qur'an?'
'You know I can't follow all that's in Qur'an.'
'You mean God tells you something to do, you disobey and then it's OK?'
'Yes. God is forgiving.'
'God is forgiving to those who repent and do not repeat their mistakes.'
'Says who?' 'Says the same book that tells you to cover.'
'But I don't like hijab, it limits my freedom.'
'But the lotions, lipsticks, mascara and other cosmetics set you free?! What's your definition of freedom anyway?'
'Freedom is in doing whatever you like to do.'
'No. Freedom is in doing the right thing, not in doing whatever we wish to do.'
'Look! I've seen so many people who don't wear hijab and are nice people, and so many who wear hijab and are bad people.'
'So what? There are people who are nice to you but are alcoholic. Should we all be alcoholics? You made a stupid point.'
'I don't want to be an extremist or a fanatic. I'm OK the way I am without hijab.'
'Then you are a secular fanatic. An extremist in disobeying God.'
'You don't get it, if I wear hijab, who would marry me?!'
'So all these people with hijab never get married?!'
'Okay! Wha t if I get married and my husband doesn't like it? And wants me to remove it?'
'What if your husband wants you to go out with him on a bank robbery?!'
'That's irrelevant, bank robbery is a crime.'
'Disobeying your Creator is not a crime?'
'But then who would hire me?'
'A company that respects people for who they are.'
'Not after 9-11'
'Yes. After 9-11. Don't you know about Hanan who just got into med school? And the other one, what was her name, the girl who always wore a white hijab. Uummm...'
'Yasmeen?'
'Yes. Yasmeen. She just finished her MBA and is now interning for GE.'
'Why do you reduce religion to a piece of cloth anyway?'
'Why do you reduce womanhood to high heals and lipstick colours?'
'You didn't answer my question.'
'In fact, I did. Hijab is not just a piece of cloth. It is obeying God in a difficult environment. It is courage, faith in action, and true womanhood. But your
short sleeves, tight pants.'
'That's called 'fashion', you live in a cave or something? First of all, hijab was founded by men who wanted to control women.'
'Really? I did not know men could control women by hijab.'
'Yes. That's what it is.'
'What about the women who fight their husbands to wear hijab? And women in France who are forced to remove their hijab by men? What do you say about that?'
'Well, that's different.'
'What difference? The woman who asked you to wear hijab. she was a woman, right?'
'Right, but.'
'But fashions that are designed and promoted by male-dominated corporations, set you free? Men have no control on exposing women and using them as a
commodity?! Give me a break!'
'Wait, let me finish, I was saying.'
'Saying what? You think that men control women by hijab?'
'Yes.'
'Specifically how?'
'By te lling women how and what to wear, dummy!'
'Doesn't TV, magazines and movies tell you what to wear, and how to be 'attractive' ?'
'Of course, it's fashion.'
'Isn't that control? Pressuring you to wear what they want you to wear?'
Silence
'Not just controlling you, but also controlling the
market.'
'What do you mean?'
'I mean, you are told to look skinny and anorexic like that woman on the cover of the magazine, by men who design those magazines and sell those products.'
'I don't get it. What does hijab have to do with products.'
'It has everything to do with that. Don't you see? Hijab is a threat to consumerism, women who spend billions of dollars to look skinny and live by standards of fashion designed by men.and then here is Islam, saying trash all that nonsense and focus on your soul, not on your looks, and do not worry what men think of your looks.'
'Like I don't have to buy hijab? Isn't hijab a product?'
'Yes, it is. It is a product that sets you free from male-dominated consumer ism .'
'Stop lecturing me! I WILL NOT WEAR HIJAB! It is awkward, outdated, and totally not suitable for this society ... Moreover, I am only 20 and too young to
wear hijab!'
'Fine. Say that to your Lord, when you face Him on Judgment Day.'
'Fine.'
'Fine.'
Silence
'Shut up and I don't want to hear more about hijab niqab schmijab punjab!'
Silence.
She stared at the mirror, tired of arguing withherself all this time.
Successful enough, she managed to shut the voices in her head, with her own opinionstriumphant in victory on the matter, and a final modern decision accepted by the society, rejected by the Faith:
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| tHe OnE WITH RaYa PiCsHelooo Old People! HaHa..yes. Its been a while since I write in here..well I don't know how I got the time now to update this.. BuT anyhoo.. The raya pictures are up. The 'music video' is still in the making though.. I have nothing much to say except that school is great. Work in wonderful and life is low-profile..haha.. Next up are the pictures from the upcoming 'Back To Kampung Days' kids camp held by Mendaki. Any comments, please leave it @ my friendster blog...as I'm still figuring out what happen to my chatterbox here..darn! Here it goes.enjoy! 
May I present, Izzah, aLFiE, RiDhuAn, Sulaimie, Nadirah and Diyana 
ThE FaCes OF HRO 2008 SC. A Total of 30 were present. 
Thank You for all the nice and sweet memories... 
Till Next time...Adios! Yours Funnily, aLFiE | | |
| ThE oNe WiTH the 'CaMP Pics'| You Are Ballroom Dancing |  You are sophisticated and classy. Definitely not the type to be seen dancing on a bar.
You are a bit old fashioned. You prefer dance to be subtly sexy, not in your face sexy.
You are sentimental and nostalgic. You appreciate the beauty of old things.
You are even tempered and cooperative. You work well with a partner. |
OK, I think part of that quizy thingy is true. I am old-fashioned and I prefer to dance in a group. I can never dance alone. HaHa..I did some dance performance before. Let me recall, first one was 'Nsync - Its Gonna Be Me/Bye Bye Bye' , then after that I did some malay dance (yes, weird but true! ) and oh ya, back in primary school days, I did a slow sentimental malay song/dance..So to sum it up, I am a versatile dancer although I would love to learn zapin and tap dance..hee..love it! Ok back to reality now, Yes! I'm back..WoHoo! And I sound a bit old..but what the heck, you cant hear my voice from here..HaHa. Ok, I'm done with reservist and the mendaki camp, next is the test then projects and lastly getting married..HaHa..no lahs..(Gila si aLFiE ni...) . Yes , reservist was well...simply boring. But the last day was fun. Had a cohesion @ Safra Yishun organised by our Commanding Officer. All kind of games and sports were played. I played bowling, tug of war and soccer and guess what..I lost all three of them..what a surprise! HaHa... But most of the fun came before reservist..the Mendaki Camp..hee..although its like only two days, I had lots of fun with the kids. And some of the boys were really handsome lahs. I just wish I can bring one home and make him my own brother..hee..Weird thing is, it wasnt even tiring... And oh ya, the FACIs were great, the commitee was great. The kids were awesomely adorable..and the games were amazingly fun..Thanks Remy..you are a fantastic camp commandant..hee..and so are you Mr Ridhuan... Lots of pics, I shall go through it one by one..really! Lots of pics..I'm not kidding you..so I shall stop typing now..woHoo, scroll down pls..ladies and gentleman.. 1st Day  
Yup, first meeting among the groups and FACIs...  
Lunch followed by games. E.g: Caterpillar Balloon..   
Yup, its all happening in the hall...   
And that's one 'KungFu Panda' standing on stage...   
First, Kungfu Panda, Second..getting ready for the next game...   
It's called the Senses Game. Created by yours truly..hee..   
Aww, I just love the 3rd pic ah. Blindfolded under the hot sun..and can sit still some more..so obedient.hee     Yes, first they go round the stick, then smell, taste, feel and search for a coin in the bucket and lastly solve the maths problem..hee   
Kids..They are so adorably funny....HeHe..    The game is over, so all very tired..HaHa...   
Just to wrap things up from the first day @ Jurong Spring CC....taking pics when free..HaHa   
And yes, caught that kid peeking into our notes and laptop..HeHe..that kid is just like me lahs...hee  
Next up was a visit to Discovery Ctr. Apparently some committee members still got time to take pic ah...HaHa  
Individual group photos..  
Some more of the groups...  
Group Venus and Jupiter..    Group Venus and Mars...  
I think I look pretty decent with those kids..hee... 2nd Day  
Group Mars and Venus..I like the boys on the right pic. The ones in yellow and blue..so handsome..like me! hee  
Left pic: My fave group..heee Right Pic: My least fave group..but i like the boy in specs..he reminds me of Simon from Chipmunks  
Those boys were the ones who supported me all the way..haha..they just cant stop talking..haaha 
Izzah and Dee...  2nd day with the kids...yes and with my camp commandant who is btw, a kid himself..haha!  
The Camp Commandant and the Camp Chairman...heehe..  
The commitee members, Izzah and Ruzaidah..  
Ok..now for the rest of the FACIs..in the left..Nadiah  
Followed by Nora and Katie...  
  The rest of the FACIs...  
And our two Best FACis for the camp..Hidayah and Ariff..WoHoo!  
Our two best campers...well, all they got was a cube full of colours..HaHa.. And lastly , they say you leave the best for last...and here it goes..  
Receiving the best commitee member as voted by the kids..WoHoo! Go aPPy! Ok..the wrap things up..here is the group pic of the volunteers! 
All the FACIs plus tHe CoMMiTTee Members... Till next time..People! Exams coming..and fasting month too..so stay healthy! aLFiE OuTz! | | |
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